loretta ross, who's a feminist i really admire, calls this calling people in rather calling people out for these conversation actions. and then finally, when you see this kind of content on social networks report, it to social networks and you may that social platforms are infamous for either not responding to these reports or for responding and telling women know that rape threat did not violate the terms of service. but the thing is that if all of us started doing this in mass, i think it would send a very powerful message to social networks about the fact that we're not happy with this and that we want to see it off platforms. and as we end this conversation, wanted to ask you about one last statistic. of course, in your book, which is women born in the 1960s, had a basically wage gap, right? that women born in the 1960s had a lower wage gap than fat, women born in the 1980s. and what's so to me, of course, is that i was born in the 1980s, and i was the first generation that got social networks. and so i wonder what you ascribe this to. and if you think part of it is social media. y